“All that I am, or hope to be, I owe to my mother.” — Abraham Lincoln, 16th U.S. President
Our perspectives on our parents are barely the same. For many, a mother—or mother figure—is the first person to love you unconditionally. Yet, as life unfolds, many often drift apart, pulled by individual pursuits. Like gold, however, ‘A good relationship is worth fighting for.’
Here are 12 thoughtful conversation questions to ask your mother. Dear son or daughter, these questions are designed to spark meaningful conversations, strengthen your bond, and uncover wisdom to carry forward. Whether your relationship with her is close and strong or needs a little reconnecting, these questions will help you grow closer.
#1 What is the story of how you chose my name?
#2 What is your happiest memory of raising me?
#3 What was the hardest moment you faced as a mother?
#4 What is something you’ve never told me but always wanted to say?
#5 What is the hardest lesson life has ever taught you?
#6 What is one piece of advice you wish you had taken when you were younger?
#7 What is one thing you hope I never forget about you?
#8 What was your favourite moment we shared as a family?
#9 How did you feel the first time you held me?
#10 What’s a dream you had for yourself that you never got to pursue?
#11 What’s the funniest or most embarrassing thing I did as a kid that you still remember?
#12 How would you describe the love you have for me?
These 12 conversation starter questions, unlike the usual “How are you, Mom?”, will not only elicit answers but also ignite deep conversations. Remember, mothers, who support us in ways we may not fully understand, are the heart of the family, nurturing us with love, strength, and sacrifices that are often overlooked.
Don’t wait, start the conversation today and good luck asking these questions.
